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Published, Semi-monthly, by the Executive Committee of the AMERICAN FEMALE GUARDIAN SOCIETY, at the House of Industry and Home for the Friendless, 29 E. 29th St.

EDITED BY MRS. SARAH R. L. BENNETT.

For Terms and Notices, see Last Pages.

"HE GIVETH HIS BELOVED SLEEP."

BY M. A.

WHEN the long day is past, and quiet lie

The over-wearied brain, the tired feet,
The hands that toil, the hearts for rest that sigh,
Cometh this word, than breath of flowers more sweet,

Or voice of music over water deep:

He gives to His beloved quiet sleep.

In vain they rise up early and rest late

Who toil for things that perish in the use; Who try in vain to mold a nation's fate

Or bind with words what God's great law shall loose.
Our destinies He in His hand shall keep,

Who gives to His belov'd refreshing sleep.
We murmur when 'tis hidden from our sight
The end we labor to attain. And still
We cry, "Not yet, O Lord! not yet the night,"
While we forget He shall our work fulfill-
Forget that God His promise still doth keep,
Who gives to His beloved gentle sleep.
E'en when, in hours of grief and deep distress,
Our hearts with anguish torn, we sigh for light,
His hand doth lead us through the wilderness.
Comfort He sends in visions of the night;
And they who sow in tears, in joy shall reap.
He gives to His beloved restful sleep.
Father! what shall we render unto Thee,
Who givest all, for daily love and care?
"Twere slight return, life consecrate to thee.

Even when our spirits sleep, when we forget to pray,
Thy patient, tender love, unchanging, deep,
Thou givest to Thy beloved while they sleep.

For the Advocate and Guardian. THE REASON WHY. MRS. LOVEJOY couldn't understand the reason why God had given her a cross husband. What Nabal was to Abigail so was the partner of her life to her; subjecting her continually to like mortifications, imposing upon her the same disagreeable necessities, and causing her, in a multitude of ways, vexation and grief.

She was sure she did not deserve it. She

was not herself bad-tempered or malicious.
She had ever tried to do her duty faithfully
and lovingly as a wife, bearing her little an-
noyances and larger trials with becoming forti-
tude and meekness. And she was sure she
did not provoke her husband's ill nature. She
tried in every way to gratify and please him,
although it really did seem sometimes, that the
more she tried, the less she succeeded. Could
the fault be in herself? She had seen some
women who were disobliging, provoking, tan-
talizing to the last degree, who never brought
down upon themselves such tempests of re-
proach and abuse, as she, in her innocence and
unconsciousness, often evoked. But she was
sure she could not talk and act as they did.
And, then again, she questioned if she had
brought it upon herself by an ill-advised mar-
riage. Certainly she had not. She had sought
counsel of her parents, and especially of her
God, and never felt more assured that she was
acting under the guidance of her Heavenly Fa-
ther, than when she promised the enterprising,
seemingly amiable, and Christian young man
who sought her hand, that she would be his.
Why was it then-why was it, that God was
leading her through such a dark way?

Whole No. 703.

the unhappy effects of their father's unchristian
spirit upon them. It led them to doubt the
truth of religion; for, "Is not father a profess-
or of religion?" said they; "and he is not half
so much like a Christian as uncle Abel, who
makes no profession." It made them rebel-
lious too-restive under an authority, capri-
cious, unreasonable, and harsh. "No one could
love a kind father more than we, and how
cheerfully would we obey and wait upon him,"
said they; "but his selfishness and tyrannical
rule wakes up everything that is ugly and wick-
ed within us. Does not the Bible say, 'Fa-
thers, provoke not your children to wrath, lest
they be discouraged?" And then there was
the constant effect of this cross spirit in the
way of example. Children can but be affected
by the atmosphere of home. The air of love
will bring out sweet and kindly fruits, while
the opposite will produce an unseemly and
pernicious growth. It was in vain that the
suffering mother, smothering down her own
disappointment and grief, enjoined upon her
little ones submission, respect and love for their
parent, gentle words, tender feelings, and noble,
generous actions among themselves; the bale-
ful influence of the vitiated home atmosphere

and trials to others. No wonder she was tried.

No wonder that the dispensations of Provi-
dence seemed inexplicable and severe.

would appear. And notwithstanding her
Long and often had she pondered the ques-
tion. It was the mystery of life to her. It al-
prayers and teachings, her discipline and con-
stant example, her children were growing up
most led her sometimes, in her heaviest hours,
around her, irritable and irritating in temper,
to distrust the love and justice of her God. It
is true, she could feel that the discipline had unamiable and unlovely in character, preparing
been a blessing to her. It had wrought out into go out into life, to be in their turn torments
her a patience and meekness, a gentleness and
docility of spirit, quite foreign to her natural
temperament, and she admired and praised the
grace of God which she knew had accomplish-
ed, by these rough and unsought attentions,
such changes in her spirit. Indeed the trial
had ceased to be a mystery-I had almost said,
had ceased to be a trial-as it regarded her
own personal experience. Its design was mani-
fest and gracious, and she had been led to
thank God for it.

But Mrs. Lovejoy had children, and the older they grew, the more painfully she realized

This morning she had retired to her own room, after an unusually severe domestic storm, and was asking, as she had done over and over again before, with bitter tears, and uplifted looks of agony, "Lord, why is this?" and the oft-repeated inquiry fell back upon her still unanswered. "I could bear it for myself," she said, "but, oh, my children-what shall I do for my children ?"

At that moment the door-bell-rang, and the

waiting-maid, with brisk step, was heard hurrying up stairs. She halted before the closed door of Mrs. Lovejoy's apartment.

"Mrs. Jones is down stairs, ma'am-the poor Mrs. Jones who comes here once in a while," she whispered through the key-hole.

Slowly the door opened. "Mary," said her mistress, "I can't go down-that is, I don't think I can, I don't feel well. My head aches, I'm sick to-day." And then, apparently conscious that her agitated manner, broken sentences, and swollen eyes were betraying her secret in spite of herself, she added, "I have so much trouble, I think I won't go down to-day, I'll excuse myself."

"Well," said the waiting Mary, "what shall I say?"

"Never mind, never mind," she exclaimed, after a moment's inward balancing, “I guess I will go down. I never like somehow to send poor people away." So, wiping her tearful face and smoothing down her disordered hair, she proceeded to the sitting-room.

"I couldn't help calling on you this morning, ma'am, I hope you'll excuse me," said the humble visitor. "I don't know just what made me either, but you always help me so to bear my troubles."

"Have you any new troubles, my friend?" asked the kind-hearted Mrs. Lovejoy, putting herself and her sorrows quite behind her, in her eager desire to do a fellow-creature a service.

"Well, nothing very new, ma'am, only you know, you know," and the woman stammered and hesitated as if she didn't like to say what she had intended-"you know, ma'am, my husband is so cross. He's been sick with the rheumatism these three weeks,, and I'm most tired of my life; for with the pain and his bad temper, and all together, it seemed as if we couldn't stand it anyhow. I could bear it for myself, ma'am, I'm sure I could, if I was all alone with him; for I always try to please him, and I never answer back-but, oh, dear, ma'am, my children-what shall I do for my children?"

Was it an inspiration from the Almighty that fell upon Mrs. Lovejoy at that moment, as she opened her lips and discoursed to the poor, tried, and discouraged woman of the unerring love and wisdom that appoints all our way in life, meting out every burden, and fashioning every cross according to our needs, and then stand by with sympathizing aspect and allsufficient grace, to help us bear them? And with what tender earnestness she exhorted the wife to patience and the mother to an wavering faith in Him who tempers the wind to the shorn lamb, and takes the part of His suffering little ones whom an unfeeling and erring parent is daily "offending."

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burden of grief which she had for the moment laid down; but where was it? She could not find it. Her own soul seemed lifted up by the precious truths she had been holding out to her sinking friend, her tears were stayed and her spirit was calm and even happy. She took up her Bible, and as if following the illuminated finger of the Comforter, her eyes ran along these words, "Blessed be God, even the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and the God of all comfort; who comforteth us in all our tribulation, that we may be able to comfort them which are in any trouble, by the comfort wherewith we ourselves are comforted of God." She had read the Bible through many times, but she thought she had never seen those words before, and now she knew the reason why she had "tribulation."

COMFORT.

For the Advocate and Guardian. "ELI SAT ON A SEAT BY THE WAYSIDE, WATCHING."

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* How often, in the present day, do we think of Eli; for our land is now filled with "watchers by the wayside." A gigantic rebellion has imperiled the ark of our national liberty, and the heart of this people is throbbing with intense anxiety, during the progress of the contest which is of

such moment to us all. Hitherto, we have boasted that we were a nation of freemen ; that all men were entitled to freedom of speech and liberty of conscience. We have spread our "banner of beauty" to the breeze, desiring it to be the synonym for all that is beautiful, noble and good, inviting the down-trodden and oppressed of the Caucasian race, in every nation, to flee to it, to find protection beneath its ample folds; to seek our hospitable shores as an asylum of peace and safety, where prosperity might smile upon their industry, and crown them with the fruits of their labors. All this was well-it was as it should be.

But there is another side to the picture. In the fairest portion of our goodly land, where the orange-tree blossoms, and the mocking-bird makes music in the grove, where all should be free and equal, more than four millions of human beings were held in bondage, and by

the unremunerated labor of their hands and sweat of their brows, were enriching their so-called masters, subject alike to the lash of the driver and the fangs of the bloodhound, or to be separated from all that was dear, by the fall of the auctioneer's hammer. We were constantly giving the lie to our boast. God heard the groans and prayers, and saw the tears of His afflicted children, and sent various judgments upon their persecutors; but, like Pharaoh, they hardened their hearts and stiffened their necks, and refused to listen to the voice of God, to let the oppressed go free.

It was the principle that "capital should own its own labor," with the numerous sins which this principle engendered and fostered,

that has endangered all that was noble and good in our national policy-that has baptized our land in blood, and now causes so many to "sit by the wayside, watching."

Yes, there are thousands watching; but are there as many thousands who are offering up earnest, prevailing prayer to "God who saves," that He will guide our national barque through the breakers, to the harbor of unity and peace! Christ commanded us to pray, as well as watch, and Himself set us the example. He exhorted us "To have faith in God, to be not afraid, only believe;" and again, "If ye have faith and doubt not, ye shall say to this mountain, 'Be thou removed, and be thou cast into the sea, and it shall be done." " What an exhortation to trust in God! How often have Christians tested the power of faith in God, and yet how loth are we to trust our nation in His hands. I fear we trust too much in finite man to save us from ruin.

True, man is a very necessary element in the struggle, for God uses means for all that is accomplished. He has a great purpose in the present contest-the doing away of a great wrong, the punishment of great sins; the advancement of human liberty; the furtherance of Christ's kingdom to the healing of a nation. All that He purposes, He will perform, for all power is in His hands. But He loves to hear the prayers of His saints, and will listen to their plea. They may implore Him, that "amid deserved wrath, He may remember mercy."

There are thousands now, "sitting by the wayside," watching the contest, who feel that they are powerless for good, who yet have the privilege of approaching the Mercy-seat of the Lord of lords and King of kings, and there, through prayer, may exercise a great power for our beloved country, by imploring God to go forth with our armies, and direct the deliberations of those in authority-civil, military, and ecclesiastical-to guide all the affairs of the nation to His honor and glory. Let us, then, not only watch, but also pray, that God will "cause the wrath of man to praise Him, "and the remainder of wrath may He restrain. But, most of all, that the spirit of the living God may strive successfully with the people of the nation, that they may be turned from the error of their ways, flee from "sin," which is a reproach to any people, and put on the robes of righteous

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WISH OF A GOOD MAN.-"I would rather," said Dr. Sharpe, "when I am laid in the grave, that some one in his manhood should stand over me and say: There lies one who was a real friend to me, and privately warned me of the danger of the young. No one knew it, but he aided me in the time of need; I owe what I am to him.' Or would rather have some poor widow, with choking utterance, tell her children, There is your friend and mine; he visited me in my affliction, and found you, my son, an employer, and you, my daughter, a happy home, in a virtuous family." I would rather that such persons should stand at my grave, than to have erected over it the most beautiful sculptured monument of Parian or Italian marble. The heart's bro ken utterance of reflections of past kindness, and the tears of grateful memory shed upon the grave. are more valua ble, in my estimation, than the most costly cenotaph ever reared."

For the Advocate and Guardian. "STRAIGHT PATHS."

THE waning light of a Sabbath evening fell on the open leaves of the large, old Bible. Young fingers had turned over the leaves, and those same young fingers had grown old, and bony, and withered, and turned them over then. Young eyes had spelled the words, and those same eyes had peered dimly through spectacles to read its blessed truths. Glad young hearts had felt the preciousness of its reading, and hearts that had found earth's promises to fail had found here a resting-place.

They were young eyes that were bending over it now, and a young heart that was seeking to know the will of Jesus concerning her life.

The young girl sat pondering these wordsthey were marked faintly with a pencil-line: "And make straight paths for your feet, lest that which is lame be turned out of the way."

"I have been turned out of the way often and often, and by such little things. Mother is a Christian, and it was only this morning I enjoyed the sermon so much, and when we were coming out of church mother said it was so long, and the minister's voice so unpleasant, that it took away all the good. And last week, after I read about Mr. Muller's giving up all for God and trusting in Him, I wanted to wear my old muslin and give the five dollars father gave me to old Mrs. Howe, to buy wine and jelly for her; but father said, when he threw the book down, 'That man is a fanatiche can't expect everybody to have the faith he has;' and that froze my heart right up, and that isn't half that everybody does. I don't know of anybody that makes 'straight paths,' and sometimes I think I won't try either. It's only the good books and papers that keep me on; and perhaps the very people that write walk crookedly too."

A boy's form emerged from the shrubbery, and a boy of fourteen years ran up the steps and sat down beside his sister.

"How beautiful everything is in the quiet and starlight!"

"Yes, it is beautiful," said the boy. "Are you glad you are a Christian ?" Charlie looked up into his sister's face. He did not need words.

"It seems to me a blessed thing-something everybody longs for; but no one ever becomes a real, Bible Christian. I don't believe there is such a thing. There might have been when Christ was on the earth, but seeing is believing, and I sha'n't believe till I do see. If father really believes I'm going to be lost why don't he tell me so? He never said I must trust in Jesus to be saved. He says so in prayermeeting," Charlie went on, "but I might talk in prayer-meeting as well as he does, or anybody else. I wish I could, and I'd make the ears of the hypocrites tingle. Why don't he tell me so-and mother, too? When I was little, she used to say at night, 'Don't forget

to say your prayers,' and now I'm getting big, I believe she's ashamed; ain't that true, now, Lucy? Did she ever ask you to be a Christian?"

"No," said Lucy, sadly.

"And then as to Sunday-school teachers -I never had one that did me a bit of good; they talk in a cold, hard-set way. Why don't they say, 'Jesus died for you, Charlie; He loves you! Why don't people talk and act as if religion were alive?-they act as if the Bible were a story-book, and God was dead."

"But, Charlie, you and I needn't."

"I don't know why we should keep straighter than other people. I'm just discouraged. I don't see why I should sign the pledge when the minister drinks cider and makes currant wine. That's a beginning of evil; now, isn't it?" "Yes, that isn't keeping in the straight path." "And when I try to keep from swearing, I hear Christians swear every day. O, no, it's nothing to say What under the heavens,' and 'Heaven knows,' and 'Confounded!' instead of what boys say. Now, what is the difference," asked Charlie, excitedly.

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"But, Charlie, if our eyes are opened we needn't follow them. The Bible can be a real Bible to us.

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But, Lucy, is it right for Christians to look all around the church in prayer-time? I've seen one of the oldest do it. And is it right for father to smoke ten cent cigars and put five cents on the plate?"

"But, Charlie-" "Yes, but, Charlie.' We boys talk it over; we've got our eyes open. You can be a real Christian, and if you are, perhaps I'll try it." And Charlie jumped up and ran around the corner of the house, whistling "Dixie."

The sister's head was bowed on the old book. She was asking God to help her to make "straight paths" for Charlie's lame feet. "O, dear!" said their father, in his armchair, just inside the open hall-door: "These horrid musquitoes won't let me sleep at all.”

M. B. B.

A BIBLE PRESENTED TO THE PRESIDENT.-This afternoon, a committee of loyal colored people from Baltimore, formally presented to the President an imperial quarto Bible, splendidly bound, costing $580, as a token of their respect and gratitude to him for his active part in the cause of emancipation. They say, since they have been incorporated in the American family, they have been true and

"I don't believe God sees any difference." "I think it's a deal better to swear outright. I should think Satan would be ashamed of such followers. Father told me this morning loyal, and now stand ready to defend the country. They not to whistle 'Dixie,' and he was reading the Sunday Herald at the time. He is a Christian!"

"I know it, Charlie. This morning I was trying to think Sunday thoughts, and mother called me to button her glove, and all the time she was talking to me about my bonnet-strings, and the color of my gloves. Then aunt Mary talked about the dust all the way to church, and the new church stair-carpet all the way home."

"And mother takes the Atlantic, but she can't take the Guardian; so she takes the Messenger, because it's cheap, and she wants to have one religious paper in the house; and she asked me to read it and I won't; it don't do her any good to read it, and of course it wouldn't me."

"And aunt Mary went to the theatre last night, and taught in Sunday-school to-day."

"I'd either give up one or the other. And she was reading Miss Edgeworth's tales this afternoon, and she'll read a chapter in the Bible before she goes to bed. O, Christians! Christians!"

"And she and mother never go to the weekly prayer-meeting-they have to sew or are too tired."

"I don't see how they can expect us to do right. It's the Christians that keep us out of the way; we don't expect anything from other people."

"What is a Christian, Charlie ?"

"One who loves God better than he loves the world, the flesh, or the devil."

"No one loves the devil," said Lucy smiling. "Well, they serve him—a good many Christians do. I guess he sets Christians in the way to keep us out."

are prepared to be armed and trained in military matters, in order to protect and defend the "Star Spangled Banner." The President replied:

"I can only say now, as I have often said before, it has always been a sentiment with me that all mankind should be free. So far as I have been able, so far as came within my sphere, I have always acted as I believed was right and just, and done all I could for the good of mankind. I have, in letters and documents sent forth from this office, expressed myself better than I can now. In regard to the Great Book, I have

only to say it is the best gift which God has ever given to man. All the good from the Saviour of the world is communicated to us through this Book. But for that Book we could not know right from wrong. All those things desirable for man are contained in it. I return you my sincere thanks to this very elegant copy of this Great Book of God, which you present."

For the Advocate and Guardian. "IONE" TO "SPES."

MY DEAR FRIEND,-My words were addressed not to those who had erred ignorantly, but to those who had sinned wilfully. My convictions are life-long, and founded on experience and observation, and I am convinced the church has not a clear, open conscience on the subject.

I have heard a mother say in agony of spirit, "The fact is, a Christian woman should not marry a man who is not a Christian," and the declaration was wrung from her after a lifelong struggle. And yet her husband was a perfect man morally, and upright in his generation.

I have seen a woman utterly unable to say one word to her husband, when he did not believe as she believed, for she knew and he knew that she had violated her conscience when she married him, and he had no respect for such Christian consistency, even if she did love him.

I have known a man to say in answer to the entreaties of his wife, "No more of this, you

were satisfied with me when you married me, and I am no worse now. If you had anything to object to, then was the time."

If my words were words of truth, I want the consciences of mothers and daughters enlightened on this point. "Forewarned, forearmed," it is well to settle principles before the time of trial comes. This subject once came up in conversation with a mother who had several daughters; she assented to what was said, "Yes, but if you are so strict, how are you to provide for a large family of daughters?"

Did space permit, I could give you the history of the family. Better do right and trust God. "Spes" must not misunderstand me. Let those who have sinned ignorantly hope and pray, but let all beware how they violate conscience and grieve the Holy Spirit. It is not merely for ourselves, but for our children. The promises are few to the children of ungodly parents, and our Saviour says, "He that is not with me is against me."

IONE.

For the Advocate and Guardian.
THE CUP OF SORROW.

How full of sorrow this world is! How few hearts there are unburdened by pain! In our country there never was a time when grief so abounded-when desolation was written on so many homes and so many hopes. I hear so much that weighs me down that I sometimes think even the Almighty Himself must be oppressed by the misery which His eye sees all over this suffering world. But He sees beyond all this. A thousand years are to Him as one day, and He knows all the joy that is to come -all the good that is to follow this hour of

woe.

We know that He is love and in this love we must rest ourselves as the disquieted, distressed child rests in the arms of its mother. But how hard it is for us to rest. We cannot forget our sorrows; we cannot choke down our sufferings; we do not have strength to rise above them. We hear our children calling for comforts that we cannot give them; we look at our brave soldiers, and our hearts ache for them. How many mothers, wives, sisters, daughters, lovers, there are to whom every hour brings renewed anxieties for the fate of the beloved. How many, too, there are, not connected with the army, who feel their burden is heavier than they can bear.

As I was thinking of all this wretchedness I took up the gospel of St. John and read the account of the betrayal of our Lord. His words to Peter, who had smitten the high priest's

servant, made a deep impression, "The cup which my Father hath given me, shall I not drink it?" Jesus was our example, how quietly and sweetly He resigned Himself to sufferingto suffering so great, that when it approached Him still nearer, He pleaded in agony that, if it were possible, it might pass from Him. We cannot suffer as He suffered for us; we cannot suffer so deeply and acutely that He cannot sympathize with us. It does not help us to

fret and chafe; it only makes our burdens
heavier to bear. All we can do is to bow in
submission and drink the cup given us, so shall
we receive the blessing of God and His sustain-
ing grace.

Submission does not require that we should
make no efforts to remove or lighten our trials;
everything possible for us to do we may do,
but when that is done, and we find the cup
may not pass from us, we must drink it as did
our blessed Saviour the cup given to Him. His
Father is our Father-the same, unchanging,
loving God.

A. H.

Children's Department.

For the Advocate and Guardian.
THE DRUNKEN HOUSE.
CHAPTER IV.
Concluded.

THE hot month of August, which brings
thinned streets to the city, and long, weary
days to the laborer, had brought health, and
strength, and peace to the "worst woman in
Ameriky;" for it was then that she re-
solved to become a woman, and to throw
away

her bottle, with its poisonous drink. Weeks passed away-the mother worked, and the mother was tired; but no Bridget was called to get the gin, for the gin was not wanted. Better things had taken its place, and better days had already come, which brought to mind those happy times when the bright young Mary milked her father's cows, and tended her father's flocks, in a far-off land, and when she married the kind, steady man, who got her a nice home, and good

food to eat, and clothes to wear.

Poor Mary Shelley-it was a sad day for her, when her beloved Thomas was placed in the grave. Her heart is a warm one, and even now, at the end of seven long years, the tears trickle down her cheeks like rain whenever she speaks of him. She was not left penniless, but her little purse was soon emptied, and the poor widow, who had had only her own house and children to attend to, knew not what to do. In her distress, she sold a feather bed, and bought food for herself and little ones; but this did not last long, and she was forced to look for work. Very soon she found several good places, where she washed, or scrubbed, or whitewashed, by the day, and so she managed to keep herself and children quite comfortable; keep herself and children quite comfortable; but evil company came about her, and then she began to drink, and grew worse and worse, until the time when I first saw her in Mrs. Conner's room. Now, I do not mean to say anything more about these old, bad times, but will stay with the new, happy Mrs. Shelley, whom we left in the dark loft. She earned, and saved, and went to meetings, and sent her children to church and Sunday-school, and went to church herself; and when the Summer was ended, and the

cool days began to come, there was plenty of money in her box, and she went in search of a new home.

There is a nice brick house with green blinds upon it, standing in a very respectable business street. The hall has a good oilcloth carpet on it, and the stairs also, are covered with oil-cloth, and a nice lamp hangs at the foot of the stairs, near the door. In the basement, there is a good-sized room, with a bright carpet on the floor. In the middle of the room is a platform about a yard square, covered with zinc. This is about six inches high, and upon it stands a large cooking stove with the doors wide open, and the fire shining through the grate. On the mantle is a large clock, ticking away merrily, and some new flat irons, and a pret ty little lamp, with a glass shade, and just over the lamp is a beautiful match-safe hanging on the wall, and near that, two cunning little willow lunch baskets, for the children to take to school.

bureau, four chairs, a looking-glass, a very There is a table in the room, a lounge, a large bed, bedstead and pillows, a traveling trunk, some band-boxes for the children's hats, and some books and playthings, too, for the little folks to amuse themselves with. Then the bureau has a white cover on it, the bed a pretty quilt, the pillows nice white There is also a closet, with bowls, tea-cups, cases, and the rocking-chair a clean tidy. plates, knives and forks, and all sorts of necessary articles for cooking; and a snug cloaks; and there are quite a good many in little place for dresses, overcoats, hats and it, all arranged in nice order.

things which I have written about, are all hers, and nearly all bought with the money which she has earned in the last fifteen

These are Mrs. Shelley's rooms; and the

months.

Her food is cooked upon that nice stove; she sleeps in that large, comfortable bed, and hangs her dresses in that snug closet; and when she comes from work at night, and the little ones get home from school, and sit around the table which their good mother has spread for them, they are as joyous a group as you would wish to see. Now, if "mother is tired," her children sing their sweet little hymns, and the mother rests, thinking of that good time, soon coming, when these helpless ones will be fitted to take care of themselves, and to become useful members of society, and laborers in their Lord's vineyard; and she thinks, too, of that still better time when there will be no more sin, and no more suffering, but God will take us to himself, and give us a home in that bright world which he has prepared for those who love him.

Happy woman! Happy that she escaped in time, and did not wake in eternity, with the sins of her children upon her head. She turned from sin and saved her family.

Little children, what can we do? Can we not do as much as that poor woman in

the Drunken House? Yes, we can go to God, and he will take away our sins as he did her's; and though you are little, you can pray for the poor, wicked, drunken creatures whom you meet, and God will bless your prayers. Then, when you are bigger, go to their homes and talk to them; that is the way to show that you really love and care for their souls, and that is one way to make yourself happy. Go to one such house as I have described, and turn one poor sinner from the error of her ways, then you "shall save a soul from death, and hide a multitude of sins."

THE NEW KEY.-" Aunt," said a little girl, "I believe I have found a new key to unlock people's hearts, and make them so willing"

"What is the key ?" asked her aunt.

"It is only one little word; guess what?" But aunt was no guesser.

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"It is please," said the child: "aunt, it is please. If I ask one of the great girls in school, Please show me my parsing lesson,' she says, 'Oh, yes!' and helps me. If I ask Sarah, Please do this for me,' no matter, she'll take her hands out of the suds and do it. If I ask uncle, 'Please,' he says, 'Yes, puss, if I can ;' and if I say, 'Please, aunt,' "What does aunt do ?" said aunt herself. "Oh! you look and smile just like mother; and that is the best of all," cried the little girl, throwing her arms around her aunt's neck, with a tear in her eye.

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Perhaps other children will like to know about this key; and I hope they will use it also, for there is great power in the small, kind courtesies of life.-Sunday-School Visitor.

TRY AGAIN.

BY ELIZA COOK.

ONCE Bruce of Scotland flung him down
In a lonely mood to think;

"Tis true he was a monarch and wore a crown, But his heart was beginning to sink.

For he had been trying to do a great deed,
To make his people glad;

He had tried and tried, but couldn't succeed,
And his heart was sore and sad.

He flung himself down in sore despair,
As grieved as man could be;

And, as hour after hour he pondered there,
"I must give up at last," said he.

Now just at that moment a spider dropped
With its silken cobweb clue;

And the king, in the midst of his thinking, stopped
To see what the spider would do.

It presently began to climb

Straight up with strong endeavor; But down it came, time after time, As near the ground as ever.

But nothing discouraged, again it went And traveled a half-yard higher, Twas a delicate thread it had to tread, And a road where its feet would tire.

Again it fell, and swung below,

But again it quickly mounted; Till-up and down, now fast, now slowNine brave attempts were counted. "Sure," cried the king, "the foolish thing Will strive no more to climb, When it toils so hard to reach and cling, And tumbles every time.

But steadily upward, inch by inch,
Higher and higher it passed,

Till a bold little run, at the very last pinch,
Put it into its web at last,

"Bravo! bravo!" the king cried out,
"All honor to those who try!
The spider up there defied despair-
He conquered; why shouldn't I !"
And Bruce of Scotland braced his mind,
And as gossips tell the tale,

He tried once more, as he tried before,
And that time he did not fail.

For the Advocate and Guardian. ATTRACTIVE AND REPELLENT INDUSTRY. DON'T, mothers, in the name of all that is humane, make labor disgusting to your children. Why, work is our birth-right on this earth; we must work, but let necessity be

looked upon as a blessing, and not a curse, by your offspring, and teach them to love duty.

Oh! would that I could burn into every mothers' heart, who never have a spare moment to listen to questions of eager young mindswho never are at leisure to hear what it has cost your child so much effort to frame into a tellable story about that last, sad fanlt which lies like a heavy weight on the conscience, and will not be removed because you are too busy to notice anything unusual in her manner. You are teaching her to detest work, you are saying to her, "go elsewhere with your confidences, I have no time to waste over them." Alas! alas! how often she does go to others, not to confess faults, but for sympathy, and sympathy others bestow, words others hear which you only should have heard. "No man that warreth entangleth himself with the affairs of this life, that he may please Him who hath chosen him to be a soldier."-2 Tim. 2. 4.

Can you not make your own and your children's necessary employments pleasing? Oh! if love be wanting-(you start at such a thought, albeit it is a possible and natural conclusion) dear mothers, for the sake of Him who died, cultivate love for your own children. You would smile if you should say that you loved your carpets, furniture and house better than those who are "bone of your bone and flesh of your flesh." Yet, to these senseless objects you give the most of your time. What shall we eat, drink and wear are seemingly more important questions to you than any other. These you seek first, and there is never enough added. I entreat of you, beloved mothers and sisters, leave not out that "first' when you read, Matthew, 6. 33. Let not the kingdom of God and His righteousness be last sought, then shall all labor be one of love, consequently, pleasant and attractive.

L.

For the Advocate and Guardian. BRING THEM UP TO IT. ALMOST as long ago as I can remember, my grandmother sent me on errands of mercy. Her creed seemed to be in conformity with the sweet little hymn we so often hear, that,

"Little drops of water,

Little grains of sand,

Make the mighty ocean, And the beauteous land."

and she was continually manifesting that belief; for her little acts of kindness, little words of love were so abundant and so wide-spread, that at her death, the cry of the poor and needy was as one universal wail; and the distressed felt that they had indeed lost a friend.

That my grandmother was somewhat peculiar, I must acknowledge; but she had many peculiarities which all would do well to adopt; and one is this, of training children to acts of benevolence. I remember her saying to me one day, that my verse in the Bible was, "Open thy mouth and judge righteously, and plead the cause of the poor and needy ;" and she hoped I would prove it some time. I was

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puzzled to know how I came into possession of any particular verse in the Bible, but upon inquiry, I ascertained that in some places and among some people, the last chapter of Proverbs was regarded as a sort of fortune-book ; and that a person, born on the first day of the month, may claim the first verse, one born on the second day, the second verse, and so on. And I being born on the ninth day, had a right to appropriate to myself the beautiful passage above-named.

I should not have expected a sensible Christian like my grandmother, would lend her influence to any unauthorized opinion; but, fortunately, this did me no harm, and my mind dwelt more upon the text and its connection with myself, than it did upon the origin of the idea; and I was not only taught that this was my verse and a sort of guide for my life, but I was led on to those little acts of mercy which I have named and taught to delight in them. Sometimes I had a basket of boquets to distribute among her sick friends, sometimes a cup of jelly or a paper of nice tea and sugar for the poor invalid; sometimes a kettle of soup or gruel; and sometimes a closely packed plate of hot dinner for a destitute neighbor; and even the spiritual wants of the afflicted were not forgotten, and the dying bed of poor black Flora was soothed and gladdened by the childish strains from the little messenger with grandmother's hymn-book.

There was no task about this work; no forcing of childish inclinations; no jarring of childish interests; the little heart was ever willing and the little hands were ever ready. It was commenced in time, and why may not all parents and guardians educate their children to a like benevolence? Why is every birthday and every great festival set apart chiefly for the reception of presents and selfish indulgences, and why is not the child taught the great lesson that it is more blessed to give than to receive? Why is the first question, "What can I have?" instead of, "What can I give?" Let the subject be brought before our little ones, and they will soon learn that there is a joy in the lighting up of one sad face and the cheering of one lone heart, that the selfish grasp of no childish treasure ever can impart.

E.

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