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COMFORT IN SORROW. FATHER, it is Thy hand that holds this cup,
Bidding me drink the bitter draught again ; 'Tis Thy same love that bears my spirit up,
When it would droop in weariness and pain.
Sometimes the clouds seem thick about my way,
Sometimes the billows o'er my spirit roll; O, then I think of Thee, my surest stay,
And beams of light break in upon my soul.
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CLOTHING, PROVISIONS, &c., received from
August 25th to September 10th, 1864. B. I.-Hope Valley and Locustville, one half bbl. contain
ing six quilts and a package of children's clothing from
the ladies. N. Y.-Delhi, a quilt pieced by Willie and Ettie Frisbie
four and tive years old. Perry Center, a quilt from a friend. Scio, a quilt from Martha A. Saeidon. Binghamton, package of clothing from friends and bested
work from Mrs Fancher. Burlington Green, two toilet cushions from Mrs Wither
head. Lockport, Augusta Trowbridge, a feather flower. N. Y. City.-Basket of peaches from Alfred Edwards. Ohio.-Ashley, small package from Dorcas and Martha
Osborn, per Joseph Morris, Cardington.
Each cloud dissolves and gently floats away,
Each wave I find is but a shining crest; The morning dark has ushered in the day,
In Thee, my Father, I have found sweet rest. "Tis not one sudden sorrow, fierce and deep ;
"Tis not that grief which comes with crushing powerIt is not these which sometimes bid me weep,
But 'tis the lingering pain of every hour. Days, weeks and months have glided into years,
And still diseas. o'er this frail form holds sway; The beacon-light of hope grows dim with fears ;
A shadow seems to bover o'er my way. Father, one gift Thou hast in love denied,
• A precious boon my weary heart would seek; But if its absence draws me near Thy side,
I'll murmur not, but feel I'm strong when weak.
Important Legacies have been lost to the Home through informality. It is therefore earnestly requested of those who design to benefit the Institution by giving it a place in their last Wul and Testament, that they would use the following:
FORM OF A BEQUEST. I give and bequeath to the American Female Guardian Society, incorporated by the Legislature of New York, in the year 1819, the sum of $, to be applied for the Benefit of the Home for the Friendless, or to other charitable uses of said Society.
The Will should be attested by three witnesses, who should write against their names, their place of residence, and state that they signed the instrument at the request of the testator, and in the presence of the testator and each other, and that the testator declared to them that i: was his or her last Will and Testament.
HOME INSURANCE COMPANY
I ask but this, my Father, grant it me:
Submission sweet to all Thy holy will; And that in paia and sorrow Thou wilt be
My Friend and Comfort, and my Helper still
And I sball bless the band that holds the rod;
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Home for the Friendless, from August 25th to
September 10th, 1864. $20 entities the Donor to a Life-membership, and a copy of the
A. & G. for life.)
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FERRIS FEMALE INSTITUTE
REV. ISAAC FERRIS, D. D., LL, D., President,
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STEREOSCOPIC VIEWS OF "HOME" SCENES. There have been prepared, in order to give our distant friends a more perfect idea of the institution in its details, a series of twelve beautiful pictures, taken with life-like accuracy, by the well-known photographer, E. ANTHONY, embracing the following :
1. HOME FOR THE FRIENDLESS, 32 E. 30th St
Price, plain, 25c: each, the whole set, $2.50; colored, 35c.
Care Mrs. Sarah A. Stone
Bor 4740. New York,
The names cannot be put on papers taken in clubs, without subjecting each paper to full postage of 240 a year, and entalling a large additional expense on the publishers
TO DONORS. --Small Packages, sent to the City by private band, may be left at either of the following places:
North Bro's and Gillett, Com. Merchants, Domestic Cotton Goods, &c., &c., 12 Murray St.
Jas. O. Bennett, Commission Merchant, 30 Whitehall St.
NOTICE. THE carrier of this paper, Mr. John E. LINE, is authortzed to receive subscriptions to the ADVOCATE AND GUARDIAN and also donations to the A. F. G. Soc. and Home for the Friendless.
Alms of the Am. Female Guardian Soclety.
1st. The Society aims to rescue from degradation, physl-
2d. To reuch as many as possible of this same exposed
(Several hundred of this class receive food, raiment, in-
3d. To afford a place and means of protection for destitute
4th. To aid and encourage destitute American widows with small children, to avoid a separation as long as practicable, by furnishing apparel, bedding, etc., at cretion : securing remunerative employment as far as it may be obtained, and also to adiponish the unwary of the moral pitfalls that often abound in the pathway of the lowly.
5th. To use the Press to enlist the Public inind in behalf of the several classes and objects above named.
The “ Home," since it was established in 1847, has sheltered, fed and clothed, temporarily, many thousand
children and adults. It is sustained by charitable contribuį tions, and is constantly needing donations of money, cloth
Ing, provisions, &c.
2 Packages, not letters, should be marked : HOME FOR THE FRIENDLESS,
29 E. 29TH ST., Care
NEW YORK. A. Chapman, (Healey's Express, ) Pier 16, N. R. A list of articles, with donors' names and post-office address, should be enclosed in the package, and another similar list sent by mail, stating when and how the package was forwarded.
The only safe way of transmitting funds, is by draft, pay. able to Mrs. Sarah A. Stone, Treasurer.
I Will our friends, in sending on renewals of Clubs always state in whose name they were taken, during 1863, The omission to do so, causes much confusion on our books,
EXTRACTS FROM CORRESPONDENCE.
Since the war, our only sewing society is
A. A, D.
Dear Home friends, -Our Heavenly Father
has kindly spared our precious little one to lost very severely in the battle on the 25th of complete his first year. To-day is his birthAugust. In the battle of Ream's Station we
day, and being desirous to cultivate in him a lost fourteen officers and four hundred and fif- spirit of practical benevolence, I will enclose ty men. Our colonel and all the field officers for him one dollar to aid the little needy ones were wounded. I came very near being taken
in your charge. That he may feel deep inter
est in and use his abilities and means for the
friendless and afflicted, if his life is spared, is
the earnest and sincere prayer of the
HAPPY MOTHER OF LITTLE WALTER.
DiEd—Recently, in Nelson, Portage Co.,
Ohio, Miss Polly Hannahs, aged 62 years.
In my far-off Western home, the news has
reached me that Miss Polly Hannahs is no
year, and the remainder for the benefit of the Home
She was a woman full of good works children. I expect soon to get pay from the
and alms-deeds; frugal in her personal expengovernment and I will try and do more.
ses, but always ready to help the needy; &
firm friend to the Female Guardian Society, Truly your friend, J. O. B.
always cheerfully doing more than her share
in filling a box for the Dorcas-room. She had
commencement. Since the war began she has
been a most devoted and industrious member
of the Soldiers' Aid Society, in the village
where she had long resided. But her work
on earth is done, and we trust she has gone to
being found dead in her house, without any
previous illness. “Blessed are those servants
whom the Lord, when he cometh, shall find of your Society by my mother, (now in heav
F. S. R.
Grinnell, lova, August, 1864.
of soil they have thriven in before transplantation. Husbands make large mistakes here. The lamb taken from the fold will sicken, if deprived of its natural food, although held in the arms, and loved never so fondly by the child. Thus the buoyant, bright girl becomes the quiet, sad, sometimes bitter woman from the withdrawal of circumstances which made her light-hearted, and gay. The husband wonders at the change, suspects she does not love as well as he, and perhaps is moody over 'it. But, alas! the real evil is unknown to either party. See to it that you make not shipwreck here. She had a name unsoiled before she became your wife. Let not the wearing of your name cause a blush of shame to mantle her cheek. Your wife has received attentions and happiness from others before she knew your love. Voices have been melted to sweetness before they addressed her. No pains have been spared to promote her pleasure, and enjoyment. Voluntarily, she has assumed the cares, pains, and responsibilities of life. Suffer them not to warp, corrode or vex her young heart; she will lean upon you. Disappoint not that confidence. Be wise that she may seek your judgment. Be tender and kind, that she may gladly run to you for sympathy. Be compassionate and forbearing, with her mistakes, that she never learn to hide a matter from you. Be careful of her need, and she will learn to rest in your loving thoughtfulness. Is there too much self-sacrifice in all this? Hear what the Lord saith: “Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church and gave himself for it," again, “Let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself." Thus living, your peace, love, and joy, shall be as a river, broader and deeper, as you together journey toward the ocean of eternity.
For the Advocate and Guardian,
TO YOUNG HUSBANDS.
Young husband, your wife is very lovely; I
do not wonder you are proud and fond of her; Institution. (His little sister, Laura S.,
that you are pleased to be the protector of any
one so bright and pure. But I do wonder if helped a little about planting, by dropping &
you ever thought how much she gave up, part of the seed.)
H. B. when she became your wife ? And whether you
understand the responsibilities which you asFrom a far Country.—The enclosed check,
sumed when you became her protector ? Perfor $25, is contributed by Mrs. Sarah Williams, haps you fancy that as she is so full of love for
you, she has resigned little and gained much ? wife of S. Wells Williams, LL. D., now Sec
You would not like to say so in words, for it
Respectfally, W. H. T. nial to become my wife, why did she say that
momentous Yes P" Because she loved you and
it that she is not disappointed. She has left
treat her as she has been treated hitherto. for one pair of sheets. Mr. H. gave one dollar Gardeners in transplanting trees, and plants, and Mrs. P. fifty cents.
give them as nearly as they can, the same sort
For the Advocate and Guardian, HELP THE POOR.
BY ANDREW DOWNING,
With a goodly share of wealth,
Who have youthful strength and health ;
Find them out and give them aid;
And thou'lt surely be repaid;
Brings to them new gutferings,
Feel the tempest's icy wings
Where no warmth or sunshine comes.
Need more food and warmer clothes ;
Much 'twill mitigate their woes;
Lending thus unto the Lord.
ADVOCATE AND GUARDIAN.
do 60C Twelve copies, (and over) to one address, 50C,
do Letters concerning the Advocate and Guardian, and those containing funds for the Society, should be addre sed :
MRS. SARAH A. STONE,
29 E. 29th Street,
Letters designed for the Board or Executive Committee, and Reports of Auxiliaries, address Corresponding Secrets ries, A. F. G. Soc., 29 E. 29th St., New York. Box 4740.
Advertisements. Only short ones are received-20c a llne
[No. 703. Oct. 1, 1864.]
For the Advocate and Guardian.
Published, Semi-monthly, by the Executive Committee of the fondest love, never neglect to pray for their looking girl, with a certain quiet, subdued air AMERICAN FEMALE GUARDIAN SOCIETY, at the House safe return.
about her that attracted me; an interest not of Industry and Home for the Friendless, 29 E. 29thSt.
The labors and cares of another day are lessened, by the whispered words, “She is ended—its petty trials and vexations already wholly without friends, and I am seeking a
forgotten, its perplexities all laid aside. Now home for her." For Terms and Notices, see Last Pages.
is the hour of sweet, familiar intercourse, ere " Wholly without friends !" A young girl, we separate for the night's repose. Alas! how alone—a stranger in this great city. No home,
painfully do those vacant chairs remind us no place of shelter, no kindly, cheering words, TRUST.
of our broken circle ! We have lost the sweet no single, familiar face, no hope of finding
pleasure of expectation; no boys will come any-in all this crowded world. What can be “I have learned in rohatsoever state I am therewith to be content."--Bible. home to-night; we need not sit op to admit a njore utterly desolate ?
There are many such late-comer, nor listen for the click of the night that pass us in the street, that sit beside us in SINCE Thou dost guide my lot, my Father, it is well,
For well Thou knowest my heart, and what I need, latch. The boys are far away to-night! the cars, that look into our faces every day, in
vaid, for friends who may care for them. Whate'er Thy heavenly wisdom hath decreed.
darker shadow fallen, even the shadow of the If life, and friends, and earth's best joys be mine,
The young girl referred to, will find-bas I thank Thy bounteous love that I am blest ; grave. Their boys were yonng and brave and
found—a home, and to some extent, a pleasant Or, if my life be shadowed, I resign ardent as ours. They went—but never to re
and kind one; and already her face is brightMy all to Thee-Thou knowest what is best.
turn; or if they came back it was with pale, If friends prove false, if all I've trusted here
er, her heart lighter. Still, she is alone! Fails in my clinging grasp, and dust remains, still faces that felt not, and answered not the
She has not a friend in the world !” No Thou dogt permit it; with a filial fear
kisses so full of anguish, that 'mid bitter, parent, or brother, or sister, not one tie of reI claim Thy love, blest healing for all pains.
blinding tears, were pressed on those cold lips lationship, not one to whom she can iinpart Thou canst not err—Thou, who hast made all worlds, Thou, my Creator, Thou, my Sorereigu Friend; and brows.
the glad intelligence, that she has shelter and Be the blest banner of Thy cross unfurled
It inay be that innprisonment, worse than
care, and the hope of independent support. O'er every clime, till time itself shall end.
death, is wearing out those young lives in True, the future is hopeful; friends may be
won, ties of relationship may be formed. A
young-certain hope in her case. Why? BY KATE OAMERON. fancy and childhood ? Heaven alone knows
How is it that she was guided and befriended, No boys at home! How still it seeins, how the magnitude of the sacrifice thousands have
when so many make shipwreck of the very strangely quiet! No loud, quick step on laid on their country's altar, and will not suffer
image of God upon them? It is simply told : the walk at meal-time; no merry whistle, no it to be in vain! Oh! God pity all these des
The kind friend who met her, heard her story, ringing laugh, no gleeful song. No disarrang- olate hearth-stones, and send consolation even
befriended, and found t'iis home for her-first ing of books and papers, no shouting in the into these darkened Ramahs, whence ascends
took her to her own. Having occasion to enhall, or lively tread upon the stairs. There is the voice of lamentation and weeping, and
ter the room assignei her for the night, she nothing now to shock your sense of propriety, great mourning; Rachel weeping for her chil
found the poor girl kneeling by her bed in Do need of saying, “ Hush! don't make so
dren and will not be comforted because they prayer. Alone, in the wide world yet with much noise." That wild exuberance of spirit, are not !
the great God close to her, she sought His help would you check it now?
and guidance. Did ever any seek in vain ? In what a monotonous way the days steal
For the Advocate and Guardian.
But how many of the friendless and homeon, oniy varied by the coming or going of let- WHENSOEVER YE WILL, YE MAY DO THEM less girls, that come into this great Babylon, ters--these bright links that still keep the
know anything of God—or knowing, seek His chain of household love strong and warm. VISITING at the “Home,” yesterday, I guidance ? Desolation or want has found them We call thein our absent ones, and yet every observed among the many that came and went, in their country homes. The liope of employhour are they present with us; we never for- a lady enter, in company with a young girl, of ment, the excitement of change, or perhaps, Het them, never cease to yearn for them with perhaps sixteen. She was a bright, pleasant- the allurements held out by Satan's own chil.
For the Advocate and Guardian.
dren—whom the father of lies might refuse assistance to her. She eagerly and warmly thought would interest his care for her, I left, to own as his—has brought them here. What thanked me. Taking my offered arin, I held promising to call in the morning. Early as will become of them? who will care for them? out my hand for the bag-she gave it. Where possible, I went to see her. The waiter took God would not have it so; He did not mean do you wish to stop? I asked. She mentioned me directly to her room, and without knock
Hotel, I knew that only gentlemen ing, threw wide open the door. She was “He setteth the solitary in families.” How
put up at that house, and told her so. sitting in a most dejected attitude, her head repeatedly and touchingly He gave to His
Are you not mistaken ?' she said. "My bent upon her hand, the tears raining down Israel the charge, “Consider the heart of the
brother wrote to me to stop there, and just upon the open Bible before her. She had not stranger, for ye were strangers in the land of how to find it.' So you will meet your heard us. Closing the door gently, I waited Egypt." Who of His children heed the
brother? ‘No sir ; he is in California. I am till she answered my knock. “Oh, sir,' she charge? His children? rather, how many of going to him. But you have friends here? exclaimed, 'I am so glad you have come. I His professed followers care for this—think of · Not any; I was never from home before.' feared you would forget me, and now,
it is a it-would not consider it an impertinence if it (You clearly ought not to be so, now, I new trouble; they tell me, the steamer will were asked or expected of them? Well may
thought; it is a queer story, but she seems a not sail for a week, and how can I stay here ?' the scoffers at religion say, “ Where are the
nice girl.) My dear child, I said, New York is “I thought a moment I knew a good, kind, fruits of your boasted piety? in what are you
a very wicked city. No woman ought to be motherly woman in the city, a warm friend of better than others ?" For this is peculiarly
in its streets alone, after dark, and here you mine. I would see if she could stay with her. the Christian's work; not solely, for it ap
are, at twelve o'clock at night, going to a .So bidding the poor gir) cheer up and have peals to every humane and benevolent heart,
public house, with which you seem unac- her bag ready by my return, (there was no and there are some, thank God! who hear and quainted, while you accept my assistance and
appearance that she had changed her dress, or heed it; but must the whole work be theirs ?
give up your property to me, a perfect strap- rested at all that night.) I went on my errand. What right has any one to withhold altogether ger, without hesitation! Don't you see, you
The good woman received me with the old of what God has so richly given them?
are quite unfit to journey so far alone? How cordial greeting, I was not half through my There is yet another class to whom a little
could your friends at home let you do so? story when she interrupted me with, 'Bring kindly assistance and advice, that cost nothing,
She did not speak for a moment, then she said, the dear child here, let ber stay with me? To might be given, as a simple Christian duty.
in a shaking voice, “How could we help it, be sure I will, how stupid to leave her there, A single fact will illustrate what I mean.
sir? We did not know—my mother and I go right back and bring her.' I did not wait
that it would be night when we got here. I for another bidding, and the warm, motherly A few years since, a clergyman, well known
thought you seemed like a good man, sir. I greeting that received the poor girl brought in all our churches, while on a visit to New
saw you look at me very kindly, often, to-day, wonder and gladness to her pale face. England, stopped at my father's house. One
and I wished you would speak to me; you “I could not stay in New York, but I promday, in the table-talk, he gave us this little in- don't seem quite like a stranger.
I have been cident by the way.
ised to return before the steamer sailed and As nearly as I can recall
praying, ever since it grew dark, that God them, I will use his own words.
when, a week after, I shook her hand at partwould keep and guide me safely, and I think
ing, it was as if I bade good-by to my own “When I took the cars at Cleveland, in the He will do it.' Rest assured He will, my dear
daughter. She clung to me as a child might. early morning train, I observed a young girl,
child. I am His servant, a minister of His. What can I say,' she sobbed, 'how can I of perhaps seventeen or so, of very pleasing You may trust me with so much of what con
thank you. I have no words to tell you how appearance, seated just before me. There cerns you, as you would like to tell. May I
grateful I feel ; what should I have done but were many people in the car, but I saw that ask, where is your home?
In Chicago.' for yon!' no one noticed or spoke to her ; she seemed to
to be alone. My interest increased as the day California, alone? 'Yes, sir.' How could
wish another to do for my daughter, and as wore on, and I observed that at none of the your mother let you undertake such a journey?
she must, as she had opportunity, befriend way-stations, or at any time through the day, 'She thought one of us must go. There are others in need. I gave her my address and did she once leave her seat. Once, I offered only three of us, sir—my mother, my brother
took hers. She promised to write at the end her some refreshment, but she declined it, and I. All our dependence is upon this bro
of her journey and I know she will." politely, but in a way that made me think any ther; he is ill—we fear it is consumption; he
Of all the passengers on that day's journey, attempt to converse with her might be intru- wants us to go to him, and he wrote just how
only this man cared for this friendless girl, and sive. She had with her, a large carpet-bag, to go, and where to stop. It was the way he
yet what one of them all, but would give far that she held tightly all the time. As it grew went himself. My mother could not go, but
more than the time and trouble it cost to sedark, she seemed more pensive and sad. she thought I ought. We could not learn of
cure the rich blessing of that one grateful Roused often from sleep by the conductor, I any one going-we tried, and we waited, but
beart. could see by the glimmer of the lamps that the mother thought it would not do to wait longer,
In the bour of our mortal need, when “sad poor girl's face looked troubled and anxious, and miss another steamer; it will sail to-mor
images of the shroud and pall and the narrow and sometimes, was wet with tears. It was We thought it would be but one night
house make us to shudder and grow sick at midnight when we got into New York, and I here.' And now, I said, I want you to dis
heart,” shall memories of the good we might lingered, while the passengers left the cars, as miss all thought and care about it. I will not
have done, the victims we might have saved. my fair friend seemed to do, for I was resolved leave New York till I see you safe on your
crowd around and affright the soul, and we to see what became of her, though surely, I way.
hear the voice that must one day be heard, thought, some one will meet her here; but “Arrived at -House, I found it was
asking of each, as they pass before us, hugging her carpet-bag, she passed out before as I thought-a gentlemen's hotel. What will
"Seest thou this woman?” me, and walked hurriedly, but quietly, through you do now? I asked her. 'I don't know, the crowd of passengers and hackmen, and had sir; what shall I do?' I was intending to passed into Chambers St., when I thought it make but a day's stay in the city, with a
A STATE is glorious just in proportion as her citizens are time to speak. Accosting her in a way I friend's family, and did not feel quite at liberty educated, honest, and qualified, if need be, to fill responsible thought least likely to startle her, I told her I to take her there; but I was somewhat ac
positions with distinguished honor and usefulness. And
whether her citizens shall bear such a high character de had been her fellow passenger through the quainted with the landlord of the next house, pends altogether on the kind of training they receive in
their early years, not the least part of which is that given day, and seeing she was alone, I might be of and we went there. Telling him so much as I
them in the school.- Educutional Monthly.
For the Advocate and Guardian.
1. A. G.
For the Advocate and Guardian.
thither, but believing and seeing by faith, is sense, a want of spiritual perception and an JANE'S SOLILOQUY.
warmth and comfort and shelter. It is coming utter self-ignorance, so that the individual not in out of the storms of life, to glad arms and
seeing himself as others see him, is quite un" ENDURE As seeing Him who is invisible." gentle encouragement. Why does not every
conscious that he has annoying faults, which, ENDURE! why, I have everything to endure. one try it? David said, “I have set the Lord
for the comfort of those around him should be Was anybody's fate ever as hard as mine? I always before my face." Why should we go corrected.
His self-love whispers that he is like often to sit down and sum up my sorrows,
mourning all our days, with Jesus afar off, right enough-certainly as good as other peoand get a sort of relief in hugging my grief. saying when questioned on experience, “I
ple—and if there is any repellancy, the cause I often wonder why I have so little happiness
don't know, I can hardly hope, I am not as is on your side and not on his. It is not that in the religion I have professed so many years when the candle of the Lord shone brightly in he is particularly offensive, but you do not esfor I have thought thet verse,
" Whom He
my dwelling." Such, worship afar off, the teem him as you ought, nor treat him as you loveth He chasteneth," was pecaliarly applica- blood of Christ can bring all of us near to Him. ought, nor bestow upon him the polite attenble to my case. No! Endurance is not al
Let us creep beneath the shadow of Ais wings, tions that he expects, nor yield the deference ways a virtue," is a maxim of mine. When
forget ourselves, live for others' welfare and to his opinions which they deserve. And in one has a fretful, sickly, unlucky husband and
happiness and all doubts and clouds will flee. this blind, unconscious condition of the offen& house full of children to work for, cook for,
der, what is to be done? contrive for, how can they always forbear ?
He ought to be told of his faults? Who And yet, let me look further, “Endure as
shall tell him? It is not a very gracious task seeing Him who is invisible.” Is it possible
to tell even your dearest friend of his failings.
DISAGREEABLE PEOPLE. that I could gain strength and companionship
Though he wishes to know them for his own by taking Him as my constant Friend, in my
DISAGREEABLE people—who has not seen
improvement—though he solicits you in all kitchen, in my chamber, in my walks, in all I them? Wherever we go we come in contact
tidelity to tell him what you think of him, and do. At any rate I will try it, not merely with them. Proud people, affected people,
how he appears to you and to others, still it is praying to an invisible personage in
painful to apply the knife and lay open the ber, I will try to see Him everywhere. But mean people, harsh and angular people, ill
diseased spot. How inuch more unpleasant how this will rule my conduct. How careful mannered people, untidy people. The world
then is it to give, uninvited, to a neighbor or I must be, not merely in outward act, but inis full of such. All mixed up are they with
acquaintance your opinion of his character; ward thought. How I must look at motives, society, growing, as weeds will grow, if per
to unveil his obliquities and infirmities to his to see that no deception or hypocrisy is there.
mitted, in a rich flower-bed in June. The * I have tried it, I used to think, flowers are very sweet and pretty, but they
And we are not required to do this. If one if I only could sit at His feet and tell His sym- are far less pleasant for their proximity to the
has really injured us, it is our duty to go to pathizing heart everything, how it would re- ill-smelling weeds around them; and indeed
him in the spirit of kindness and tell him his lieve my burden, tell Him of my failing
fault between himn and us alone. But we are among the pig-weed and chick-weed, and ragstrength and yet added burdens, of all the little weed and smart-weed, one often feels inclined
nowhere instructed to take upon ourselves the trials and privations that small means bring in to pass the flowers by, it is so troublesome to
correcting of the numerous petty failings, and their train, of the disappointments of the year, get at them. Just so, we have seen persons
unpleasant personalities which we daily see in but since this new feeling and determination
those around us. shrink from society, failing to onjoy the choice
We should have abundant came into my heart, I will place my Saviour spirits therein, because they are so mingled occupation in such a task. And meanwhile, in every room in the house, and I will always with those that are peculiar and disagreeable.
we may venture to ask, Who will correct ours ? find Him by the eye of faith, as a sweet con- How came these individuals so disagreeable. For have we not all, as we have before sugsoler always appeal to Him in every tempta- It is their nature, you say. That is true gested, faults-of manner, of disposition, of tion to fret, or worry over small trials, and doubtless, but not the whole cause of the diffi- character? Are we perfect, that we should trust His grace to enable me to bear large culty. Take, for instance your own nature. criticise others so mercilessly, or be disgristed Now I cling to Him as I used to cling Supposing you had been left to grow up with
with those who do not come up to our standto my mother before God took ber. He seems
out care, your heart unweeded like the flower- ard of refinement, or offended with such as to whisper“Courage, Jane, your lot seems bed, would you have come to be an agreeable
have real and serious faults? Is our charachard, but brighten up your mercies, forget all
person? Be honest with yourself. With all ter more symmetrical, our life more harmothe sorrows, think only of the joys."
the advantages of culture you have had, are nious, than that of our associates? Have we Then, I try to compare my condition with there not still radical defects in your charac- not many imperfections? Have we not disathat of many of my acquaintances. True Mrs. ter and spirit, which are distasteful to some greeable habits? Do we not manifest tempers, Chase lives in a fine house with a delightful one? I am afraid it is so, you hesitatingly express sentiments, give utterance to feelings, garden and fruit and Aowers in plenty, but say. Then can you not see just what is the quite as obnoxious as those of which we comthen, her husband drinks and gambles. How matter with many a one who is particularly plain? What, then, is to be done with us? pale and thin she looks among her treasures. repulsive to you? They have had no training, Are we to be frowned upon, avoided, censured, Then all my children are healthy, and the or perchance a sadly misguided edncation. despised ? What are we to do in our dilemma? butcher's bills are easier to pay than the doc- This is not their own fault. It is their misfor- There is but one way to get along in this tor. To be sure I have a weak and failing tune. They are the sad victims of parental ig- / world, where all are alike, if not equally, imframe, but then, I have a good hope of heaven norance or mistake, or perhaps culpable peg- perfect. We must cast the beam out of our at last, I feel this wonderful companionship all lect. Or they may have been orphans, left to own eyes, before we undertake to remove the the time with my Saviour. Many a rich friend an unloved and untended childhood. Are they mote from our brother's. And if we wait to has said with tears and earnestness that called then to be blamed as much as pitied for their do this it will be a long time, and we shall forth my wonder, “How I wish I could ex- disagreeableness ?
have ample exercise for patience with les disachange my hope for yours. Oh! how I wish But you say, they are old enough to correct greeables around us, before we shall feel preI could feel as you do."
'. So I have lost iny doubts by ever seeing that
, but then they do not see them. The Then again we must consider our brother Jesus in my path. Doubting is a long, dreary very lack of early training of which we when tempted, lest we fall into the same moor, the bleak wind drives one hither and have spoken pre-supposes an obtuse moral temptation; and this will keep us so watchful