The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom. Wise men lay up knowledge. may not a little man do a great deal of good? It is T was the wisest saying of the wisest man, the fear of God is the beginning of wisdom. Holiness, then, is the introduction of all wisdom, so it shall be the first of my advice. Fear God, and if holiness give knowledge, knowledge will give thee happiness, long life, riches, and honour. Length of days is in the right hand of wisdom, and in her left hand are riches and honour. How exalted a thing, then, is religion, which is the mother of so great blessings, and who will pity thy complaints for the want of any of these, if they be obtained by the pleasure of that which will also crown thee with heaven, an holy life; be pious, and thou art all these; fear God, and thou shalt not fear man or devil, for it will set thee above the reach of fortune or malice. EARL OF BEDFORD. The end of learning is to know God. The wise in heart will receive commandments. Flatterers are thieves in disguise. Flattery is a fool's wisdom. AGAINST FLATTERY. AKE care thou be not made a fool by flatterers, for even the wisest men are abused by these. Know, therefore, that flatterers are the worst kind of traitors; for they will strengthen thy imperfections, encourage thee in all evils, correct thee in nothing; but so shadow and paint all thy vices and follies, as thou shalt never, by their will, discern evil from good, or vice from virtue. And because all men are apt to flatter themselves, to entertain the additions of other men's praises is most perilous. Do not, therefore, praise thyself, except thou wilt be counted a vainglorious fool; neither take delight in the praises of other men, except thou deserve it, and receive it from such as are worthy and honest, and will withal warn thee of thy faults; for flatterers have never any virtue; they are ever base, creeping, cowardly persons. A flatterer is said to be a beast that biteth smiling; it is said by Isaiah in this manner :-My people, they that praise thee, seduce thee, and disorder the paths of thy feet; and David desired God to cut out the tongue of a flatterer. But it is hard to know them from friends, they are so obsequious and full of protestations; for as a wolf resembleth a dog, so doth a flatterer a friend. A flatterer is compared to an ape, Self-praise is no honour. A flatterer is either a rogue or a fool. They that praise thee, seduce thee. Buy the truth, and sell it not. who, because she cannot defend the house like a dog, SIR WALTER Raleigh. THE HEIGHT OF HONOUR. No man to offend Ne'er to reveal the secrets of a friend; To make the heart no stranger to the tongue; Nor at his meat I choke with flattery; MASSINGER. Before honour is humility. Be not wise in thine own eyes. A man is known by the company he keeps. Choose your friends with care. ON THE CHOICE OF FRIENDS. HERE is nothing more becoming any wise man than to make choice of friends, for by them thou shalt be judged what thou art. Let them, therefore, be wise and virtuous, and none of these that follow thee for gain; but make election rather of thy betters than thy inferiors, shunning always such as are poor and needy; for, if thou givest twenty gifts, and refuse to do the like but once, all that thou hast done will be lost, and such men will become thy mortal enemies. Take also special care that thou never trust any friend or servant with any matter that may endanger thine estate, for so shalt thou make thyself a bond-slave to him that thou trustest, and leave thyself always to his mercy; and be sure of this, thou shalt never find a friend in thy young years whose conditions and qualities will please thee after thou comest to more discretion and judgment, and then all thou givest is lost, and all wherein thou shalt trust such a one will be discovered. Such, therefore, as are thy inferiors will follow thee but to eat of thee, and when thou leavest to feed them they will hate thee; and such kind of men, if thou preserve thy estate, will always be had. And if thy friends be of better quality than thyself, He that walketh with wise men shall be wise. True friends are tried by adversity. A friend sticketh closer than a brother. Keep sound wisdom and discretion. thou mayest be sure of two things: the first, that they When thou shalt read and observe the "Stories Better an open enemy than a false friend. All are not friends that speak fair. |